Devo ser muito esperta noutras coisas

"I hate to tell you, but that whole "I don't want to ruin the friendship" excuse is a racket. It works so well because it seems so wise. Sex could mess up a friendship. Unfortunately, in the entire history of mankind, that excuse has never ever been used by someone who actually means it. If we're really excited about someone, we can't stop ourselves - we want more. If we're friends with someone and attracted to them, we're going to want to take it further. And please, don't tell me he's just "scared". The only thing he's scared of - and I say this with a lot of love - is how not attracted to you he is."

[excerto do livro "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-excuses Truth To Understand Guys" de Greg Behrendt.]